вот основное
Код AS3:
var conf:TLSConfig = new TLSConfig(1)
conf.promptUserForAcceptCert = true;
conf.trustSelfSignedCertificates = true;
conf.ignoreCommonNameMismatch = true;
socket = new TLSSocket(!host!, !port!, conf);
socket.addEventListener(ProgressEvent.SOCKET_DATA, onTLSReady);
socket.writeUTF("request to server \n");
socket.flush();
private function onTLSReady(e:ProgressEvent):void
{
trace("get data " + socket.readUTFBytes(socket.bytesAvailable));
}